Many couples tell me:
"We wish we hadn’t waited so long to reach out."
After a coaching or therapy process, couples often feel lighter, more understood, and more connected. They rediscover joy and pleasure in their relationship.
It can feel vulnerable and confronting to talk about what’s not going well between you. And when all the attention goes to what’s wrong, things can feel heavier than they already are.
That’s why, in our work together, we also focus on strengthening connection, so it becomes easier to look at the difficult topics.
The word "therapy" can sound heavy — as if something must be broken or "wrong". But often, the most challenging moments are also the most meaningful.
In my practice, I combine both approaches:
Sometimes, past experiences impact how you relate to each other now.
For example: one partner grew up feeling emotionally alone and now longs for closeness, while the other had a smothering upbringing and values independence.
Without understanding where these patterns come from, miscommunication and distance can grow. Therapy helps you see the difference between what belongs to the past and what belongs to now — creating space for compassion and understanding.
.jpeg){kind=spacer}
Coaching is about building something together. It’s future-focused and goal-oriented.
Examples of coaching goals:
My work blends elements of both therapy and coaching. From therapy, I bring insight and emotional depth. From coaching, I offer practical tools to strengthen your relationship — and make it more fun.
Couples often come to me because they long for:
Some common issues I help couples navigate:
In our sessions, you’ll discover how to:
Couples coaching can be deeply transformational — for you as individuals and as a couple. You’ll learn to speak, listen and connect — especially when it’s hard.
1. Introductory Call
In this session, we explore what’s working in your relationship and what’s not. Together, we define your goals for the process.
2. Intake Session (90 minutes)
In this session, we explore what’s working in your relationship and what’s not. Together, we define your goals for the process.
3. Session Plan
Based on the intake, I’ll estimate how many sessions might be helpful. This depends on your needs — for example, rebuilding after infidelity often takes more time than improving day-to-day communication. Most trajectories last between 6 and 12 sessions.
4. We Begin
We start working together. Early on, sessions are typically scheduled every 2–3 weeks (if needed, every week). Each session lasts 90 minutes and includes take-home exercises or reflection.
5. Pricing
Each 90-minute session costs €165 (including VAT), including preparation and follow-up.
Warm, empathetic, honest — and focused on what you truly feel.
I bridge the gap between theory and your lived experience. We get to the heart of the issue — and from there, rebuild connection and love.
I’ve had the privilege of supporting many couples through a wide range of challenges. And time and time again, I’ve seen how love begins to flourish again when we give it time and attention.
I work with methods including:
I’m a certified couples coach trained by NONONS, and I regularly take part in
supervision and peer review to ensure ongoing growth and quality.
Not quite. I use therapeutic tools like EFT and Gottman, but the focus is on connection, communication, and personal growth — not long-term psychological treatment.
That depends on your situation, but most couples notice meaningful change between 4 and 8 sessions.
Usually every 2 to 3 weeks in the beginning, so you have time to reflect and practise at home. When you’re closer to your goals, we space out the sessions more.
Yes. I usually work in person, but online sessions are available by request.
Yes — ideally you’re both motivated. If one of you is unsure or hesitant, we can begin with an individual session to explore what’s holding them back.
These are important moments for professional support. EFT and Gottman offer proven ways to rebuild trust, communicate openly, and work through pain — step by step and with care for both partners.
"Nicole is a wonderful coach. We felt at ease with her from the start. She remained neutral, which helped us both feel heard. She gently interrupted when we slipped into old patterns, which gave us so many helpful insights. We now prioritise each other more — in small moments, like hugs and kisses, and bigger gestures like date nights. We also became more mindful of how we communicate, and we now choose connection more often than distance."
"After an intense period, we had lost touch with each other. The sessions with Nicole really helped us to recognize our patterns, improve our communication, and truly reconnect. Her guidance felt very personal, with plenty of space for whatever was needed in the moment. We felt heard, without judgment. Nicole balances practical tools with deeper, more reflective exercises. Our goal was to grow closer again — and we absolutely did. Exactly what we needed."
Book a free discovery call or send me an email to get started
